Aries, is the first sign, is therefore that of new beginnings. The young
ram is adventurous, ambitious, impulsive, enthusiastic and full of energy. The
Arian is a pioneer both in thought and action, very open to new ideas and a lover
of freedom. They welcome challenges and will not be diverted from their purpose
except by their own impatience, which will surface if they don't get quick
results.
Aries subjects are courageous leaders with
a genuine concern for those they command, being responsible people, it is rare
that they will use their subordinates to obtain their own objectives as
leaders, but occasionally it does happen. They do not make very good followers
because they are too "take charge". They may be unwilling to obey or
submit to directions for which they can see no reason, or with which they
disagree. They are much concerned with self, both positively and negatively -
self-reliant but also self centered (sometimes) and concerned with their own
personal advancement and physical satisfaction. Their immense energy makes them
aggressive and restless, argumentative occasionally, headstrong, quick
tempered, easily offended and capable of holding grudges if they feel
themselves affronted.
As the first sign in the zodiac, an Arian,
simply "gets something started and leads the way". The Sun in this
zodiac position gives your will free rein to express itself. You could be doing
this in the form of some leadership role, or by forcing others to look at
themselves in a new way. You can accomplish this by knowingly carrying out a
deliberate act in the name of some cause that moves you. A negative effect of
this sun sign is that you could sometimes unknowingly make it hard for others
to relate to you, as you really are.
In your personal relationships Arians are
frank, direct and candid, and make enthusiastic and generous friends. You are
liable to have a high sex drive and make passionate but fastidious lovers.
There is, however, a negative side to your associations with other people. You
can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in your companions and,
though yourselves sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others.
The intensity of your sexual urges can drive you to promiscuity and a Don
Juan-like counting of conquests of the opposite sex. It can also trick you into
early unwise marriage which may end disastrously. Arians are highly devoted to
their children, even to the point of laying down their own lives, so that they
might live. You will not find a more defensive and loving parent in all the
zodiac.
It is preferable to be aware of your
pioneering spirit and not disregard it. For in acknowledging it you not only
enjoy life more, but you avoid being pushed around by others. Your nature is
usually push or be pushed, with little middle ground. This can at times be
objectionable to others, but you must have the freedom to act, rather then just
thinking about it, getting pent-up in the process. At all costs you need to
avoid negative emotions such as resentment, regret and self-pity, for they
would deny you what is essential to your nature: straightforwardness.
Mentally Arians are intellectual and
objective, but can be in rare situations bigoted and extremist in religion and
politics. They are good champions of lost causes and last-ditch resistance.
They are quick-witted but sometimes foolhardy and over optimistic, lacking
thoroughness and the ability to evaluate difficulties in the undertakings into
which they often rush impulsively. The great need of Aries natives is to
exercise an iron self-control, to discipline the qualities and tendencies of
their character to the advantage, not the detriment, of the society in which
they move.
Arians, like
a challenge that will stir them to action. This challenge may just be
frustration; or at a more controlled level, you may have clear direction and
know what or whom you're fighting for. If your direction is not clear, then ask
yourself and listen to your inner voice. You will come up with an answer. An
Arian without a direction in which to go, or a without a cause to fight for,
would be against your nature and make you more a "sheep" then a ram!
Arian, do not be afraid to be forceful,
for this is the very core of your nature. If you feel fear in your heart, then
look for a history of negative events in you personal history, such as violence
or abuse from others. Being fearful may also indicate a household in childhood
that negated independence and personal initiative in you. This could have
inhibited your natural urge to go forward into life as the leader and champion
you were born to be. Conversely, such bad influences could also have led you to
be overly forceful, or to be unsympathetic to your own need and sensitivity.
Much as you are the Ram, there is still
the little lamb in you, which means that at times you would attain your goals
more easily by gently giving in without resistance to the demands of a given
social situation, rather than getting your horns entangled in something larger
and more powerful than yourself. This is a talent akin to knowing the
difference between what you can change, and what you cannot. This of course
takes patience, the acquiring of which is definitely your greatest achievement,
along with your sense of your own inner softness.